I am out to fix what I think is one of the biggest myths of all time, something I hear from the mouths of friends all the time ” homemade icing is hard to make”. No, it is not!
In fact, if you can boil water you can make icing. Well, at least the recipe for the icing I grew up with. It truly is the simplest icing recipe ever!
This recipe iced pretty much every cake and cookie in my home growing up. The only thing that changed was the color or the sprinkles on it.
Simplest Icing Ever: If You Can Boil Water You Can Make This Icing
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Ingredients for simple homemade icing
- 2 to 3 tablespoons milk (put in 1 tablespoon at a time until you it becomes the right thickness)
- 1/2 cup butter
- 2 cups powdered sugar, icing sugar, confectioners sugar (this sugar goes by so many names)
You will also need something to whip the icing up with. I have used an inexpensive handheld mixer for years. They worked great for icing but …..not so well for sugar cookie dough. So after burning out the engine in a few handheld mixer models I cashed in some Amazon gift cards and bought I splurged on a top-quality hand mixer and I LOVE it. I have used it for a few years now and it is still going strong. It breezes through a triple or quadruple batch of cookie dough like a walk in the park! Worth every penny.
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Instructions for homemade icing
Back to making the icing. Here is my biggest tip for successful icing making; make sure you take your butter out to soften several hours before. Do not try softening it in the microwave; that never works. You end up with slightly melted butter and that will not make good icing at all.
Cut the butter up into small pieces and beat it with your mixer. Next, add in about 1/3 of the powdered sugar (amounts in the recipe below) with one tablespoon of milk. Starting with your mixer on low, beat the mixture well. As the powdered sugar mixes in, you can turn up your mixing speed.
When that is beaten, repeat that twice more so that you have added all the powdered sugar and 3 tbsp of milk.
At this point, icing gets a bit personal, as in you have to decide how soft you like it for spreading purposes. I usually add in at least one more tablespoon of milk making it 4 tablespoons of milk total.
However, if you are using an icing bag to make cupcakes with icing piled high you might want to stop at 3. Or if you are icing cookies with a knife you might want to add one more tablespoon to make the icing easier to spread, especially if little ones are helping you.
Adding the perfect amount of milk is really the only tricky part in making the icing, and the secret to doing this successfully is to add just 1 tablespoon at a time and check the icing after you blend that tablespoon of milk in to see if it is at the consistency you want yet.
If you want colored icing I like to add the coloring in last and then beat it one more time until the color is all mixed in.
Want a simple basic cookbook to guide you in the kitchen? Check out the Better Homes & Gardens cookbook
Prefer chocolate icing? Try my chocolate truffle icing. It is just as simple to make!
Simplest Icing Ever: If You Can Boil Water You Can Make This Icing
Ingredients
- 1/2 cup butter
- 2 cups icing sugar
- 2 to 3 tablespoons milk
Instructions
- Several hours before you intend to make icing take the butter out of the fridge to soften.
- Unwrap butter and place it in a bowl
- Beat butter
- Add icing sugar slowly (about 1/2 a cup at a time) and beat it into butter
- Add milk 1 tablespoon at a time beating after every tablespoon until you get the thickness you want.
Kelley says
mmmm….this looks delicious! I’ve never been an icing fan–until recently. Now I can’t stop myself from licking the whisk and bowl clean. Haha!
Victoria says
I love beating the kids to licking the beaters (whisks). Probably means I am not going to win the mother of the year award any time soon. LOL
Leanne | The Transplanted Southerner says
Awesome! I love simple recipes, and I love homemade icing. Double win!
Elizabeth says
My Mom has been making icing just like that for years! Except she adds vanilla. 🙂
Victoria says
Yes you can add vanilla. My mom use to add peppermint during the holidays and sometimes maple.
JESSICA says
HOW MUCH VANILLA DO U ADD
Victoria says
If you want to add vanilla (it is optional) I would start with 1/2 a teaspoon and add it before the milk as it will make the icing less firm –that way you can adjust milk as needed.
Kara says
This is very similar to the icing that I make. I like to add almond extract to mine 🙂
I felt like a magician the first few times I made my own icing!
Natosha says
Do you use regular butter or unsalted?
Victoria says
Regular
Angela says
Does it matter what percent of Milk is used? I only have Skim on hand.
Victoria says
I have used skim before and it doesn’t seem to make much difference. Just remember to add the milk in a tablespoon at a time until you get it to where you want it. Skim milk is less creamy so it might take a bit less.
Tracy F says
Can unsalted butter be used?
Victoria says
You can give it a try. I can’t see why it would make a difference, but I have never tried it.
Toni Hunter says
I have made this multiple times and it never seems to come out right :(. Its not fluffy or thick it ends up being liquidy what am I doing wrong????
Victoria says
If it is runny I would suggest less milk. I go one tablespoon at a time until I get it just right
Megan says
How much does this recipe make? I’m teaching a baking class and have two sessions, each with 10-15 students? I need to know ASAP please!
Victoria says
It makes enough to ice a 9 by 12 sized cake or roughly a dozen cupcakes. Hope that helps.
Carol says
Can you make this frosting ahead of time and refrigerate
Victoria says
You can but if you do, you will need to take it out a few hours before you want to ice the cake. Refrigerating it will make it harden up some, to make it spreadable again it needs to be brought back up to room temperature.
Myra says
I can’t find the amount to any of the ingredients?
Victoria says
Sorry it looks like the recipe plugin that makes up a printable of the recipe has malfunctioned I will fix it. In the meantime it is 2 cups icing sugar, 2 to 3 tablespoons milk (one tablespoon at a time to desired thickness) and 1/2 cup butter.
Brandy says
If I were to add vanilla how much do u add?
Victoria says
I would start with 1/2 a teaspoon and add it before the milk as it will make the icing less firm –that way you can adjust milk as needed.
Briana says
I made this and it’s FABULOUS! Can the icing be used on cupcakes and then left covered and unrefridgerated? I prefer that but wasn’t sure bc it contains milk;)
Victoria says
We have done that with no problems.
Bri says
How much will this yield? Enough to ice a cake?
Victoria says
Yes, it will do an entire cake, 2 layers,s or 9 by 12 sheet. It will also do a dozen or so cupcakes.
Angelica says
Can I use a unsalted butter or no??
Victoria says
You could give it a shot. I really don’t know if it would change the flavor much or not.
Alicia Eide says
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!
Alicia Eide says
one question will it ice
2 22 cm cakes?