Snail Pace Transformations

Transforming Life Inch by Inch

  • Home
  • Disclosure
    • Privacy Policy
  • My Story
    • Let’s Chat!
  • Work At Home
    • Reselling
    • Point Programs
    • Blogging
  • 52 Resources For Stretching Your Money
  • Freebies
  • Books Read In 2022

Becoming Friend Worthy: Don’t Try To Look Perfect

October 9, 2013 By Victoria 1 Comment

Share
Pin
Tweet
Share

Last updated on July 1st, 2021 at 06:06 pm

When Making Friends Be You Imperfections and All

(Links in this post are affiliate links. I will be compensated when you make a purchase by clicking those links. See my disclosure page for more information)

James 5:16 Confess to one another therefore your faults (your slips, your false steps, your offenses, your sins) and pray [also] for one another, that you may be healed and restored [to a spiritual tone of mind and heart]. The earnest (heartfelt, continued)prayer of a righteous man makes tremendous power available [dynamic in its workings](Amplified)

I think it is only human to want to have others think highly of us. However, I think that sometimes we assume that to have others think highly of us we have to hide our flaws and appear perfect.

What we forget is that God did no create perfect humans and  when we try to make it look like He did we put off a sort of “holier than thou” friend repellent.

Now I don’t mean that the minute someone introduces themselves you should spill out ever sin you have ever committed, because that too would send people running from you instead of into a friendship with you.

What I mean is don’t be afraid to be you, imperfections and all. When the topic of housecleaning comes up and you struggle with it, admit it. You don’t have to make it a 30 minute talk about how horrible you are at it, but admit it is a struggle for you, and be open to listen to others who might have a few tips, but my guess is you are more than likely going to find that people pipe up and tell you they struggle with it too and they are going to feel attracted to you for just that reason.

Attraction leads to friendship development. So be you imperfections and all.

Another drawback of hiding our imperfections is that we end up attracting relationships that will fizzle out faster than an opened bottle of soda pop. What I mean by this is friendships are built on common bonds, if you make yourself out to be someone you are not in order to hide the flaws of the person you really are your bonds are not really going to be authentic and will die out.

 Don’t miss a post Subscribe By Email or follow along on Facebook or Twitter

or follow my New Home to Hometown board on Pinterest

Linked to Thriving Thursdays at Serving Joyfully

This post is part of the New Town to Hometown series. Use the links below to dig into the series.

Introduction: My Story

Part One: Becoming Friend Worthy

  1. It all begins with fellowship with God
  2. The most important lesson in friendship building
  3. Are you welcoming?
  4. Create mutual bonds
  5. Meet a need and make a friend
  6. Don’t try to look perfect (you are here)
  7. Not everyone is going to be your friend

Part Two: Places To Find Friends

  1. Start the search online
  2. Church
  3. Community
  4. MOPS
  5. Homeschooling groups
  6. Be the neighbor with the active porch swing
  7. Breaking the ice and setting goals

Part Three: Creating Community

  1. Research before you leave

2.Visit your new local visitors center

  1. Make a to see list

4.Take a Sunday drive

5.Study the areas history

6.Take part in all things local

7.Explore local state parks and playgrounds

Silly Stories Of My Moving Adventure

  1. It is going to be a long trip
  2. When you give a two year old a marker
  3. I was a soap opera star for just one day
  4. A sign that the long trip was about to end
  5. What happens when your landmarks become cornfields

new town to home town (share button)

Get snail-e-mail in your inbox each week!

A weekly email with the feel of snail mail. A peek into my week, a few deals so good I just have to share, and links to all of Snail Pace Transformations latest posts!

Success! Now check your email to confirm your subscription.

There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again.

We won't send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time. Powered by ConvertKit
Share
Pin
Tweet
Share

Filed Under: 31 Days

Comments

  1. Renee says

    October 9, 2013 at 5:26 pm

    Amen, so very true!

    Reply

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Recipe Rating




Follow Snail Pace Transformations

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • Pinterest
  • Twitter

Looking for something?

Sign Up For My Newsletter

Success! Now check your email to confirm your subscription.

There was an error submitting your subscription. Please try again.

We won't send you spam. Unsubscribe at any time. Powered by ConvertKit

Hi, I'm Victoria

Welcome to the Snail Pace Transformations blog where I share my tips for improving finances and home management one small step at a time. Why small? Because small changes are more likely to transform your life.

My Book Thrifty & Thriving Available On Amazon

Recent Posts

  • 27 Simple Methods For Saving Money On Groceries (in 2022)
  • Open Up and Live Life in Full Bloom (More Joy; More Purpose)
  • How To Live A Simple And Sustainable Life And Save Money
  • 10 Fun Ways To Celebrate Valentine’s Day On A Tight Budget
Privacy Policy

Copyright © 2022 · Lifestyle Pro Child Theme On Genesis Framework · WordPress · Log in