When I am asked the question I can clearly say “my husband” but perhaps a better question is “what is first?”
What is first? the never ending marking pile or baking those cookies I know are his favorite but are pain to bake? What is first? the never ending to do list or joining him on a trip to the hardware store just because he wants me too?
A kiss on the cheek a hug and a hello. A flirting text here and there, an errand done without complaint. A snack and a note left out for his late evening homecoming all these things remind him that not only is he first, but he is worthy of my time and affection above all things.
Relationship is first.